Abused Men The Hidden Side of Domestic Violence

Subjects:

• Sociology » Men's Studies
• Psychology » Environmental Psychology

Related Web Pages:

• http://www.abusedmen.com

Reviews:

• For a look at the often discounted issue of partner abuse against men, read Abused Men: The Hidden Side of Domestic Violence by Philip W. Cook.
  —Charleston Gazette/Chicago Tribune/Newsday/The Record May 21, 2007
• Cook's achievement is admirable. Not only does he cover his topic succintly and thoroughly, meticulously documenting each step he takes, but he also delves into a number of pertinent related issues lesser authors might have missed entirely....Cook has written a remarkable, invaluable book.
  —Transitions
• Cook writes in an interesting and inviting manner, the engaging style of a journalist providing an in-depth discussion of a topic that he acknowledges in controversial, emotionally laden, and in conflict with many beleifs about abuse and violence in America.
  —Journal of Marriage and the Family

• Endorsement From "Dear Abby" Abigail Van Buren: [This book] reads like 1,000 Dear Abby letters...fascinating...but it explains the many aspects of domestic violence. It has a wealth of material that could be helpful to professionals who deal with domestic violence.
• Endorsement From Erin Pizzey
  Founder of Chiswick Women's Refuge
  Author, Scream Quietly or the Neighbors Will Hear: I am grateful to Philip Cook for writing Abused Men. This is a brave book.... [The author] brings to bear in this book his knowledge as a journalist and his evident care and compassion for all victims of domestic violence.
• Endorsement From R.L. McNeely, Ph.D., J.D.
  Attorney
  Professor of Social Welfare, University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee: This just might be the volume to get the message across finally that domestic violence is a human problem, not just a gender problem.
• Endorsement From Kenneth H. Coleman, M.D., J.D.
  Attorney at Law: Very thought-provoking and well researched. [This book] should aid in educating medical professionals regarding this potential diagnosis as well as help shape our legal approach.
• Endorsement From Ronald R. Still, M.S.
  Chief of Police (Retired)
  Portland, Oregon: Thought provoking research which will stimulate further inquiry into human behavior long neglected.
• Endorsement From Rob Solomon
  Licensed Professional Counselor
  Author, Full-Esteem Ahead: Mr. Cook argues persuasively that we may be looking at only half the problem, and we're neglecting the needs of male victims. It also seems clear that much of Mr. Cook's work applies equally to abused people of either gender, and he offers practical suggestions for the abused. His solutions would impact all cases of domestic violence and are well worth our consideration.
• Endorsement From Reena Sommer, Ph.D.
  Assistant Professor, University of Manitoba
  Family Counselor: Perhaps with this book, Philip Cook can accomplish what academics have for the past 25 years failed to do--to cut through the political rhetoric and finally present the case of abused men as a real social problem. Cook goes beyond the issue of battered males as he sheds incredible insight into the systemic problem of family violence. Perhaps now, couples experiencing violence in their relationships can be helped. His case material sadly brings to life the statistics researchers generate.
• Endorsement From
  Stanley G. Sturges, M.D.
  Medical Director
  CareMark Behavioral Health Services: I find Abused Men most appealing because of the rigorous research upon which the findings are based. There is nothing that is not fully substantiated by data...I appreciate the balance achieved in addressing a topic, usually ignored, in an era of accusations and hysteria that often detracts from the actual aggression and violence that affects domestic relations. This book is a real contribution that will help in the education of all professionals in the field of sociology and mental health.
• Endorsement From Murray A. Straus, Ph.D
  Co-Director Family Research Laboratory
  University of New Hampshire: Unique. The case materials presented are gripping, and need to be part of the historical and social record. It is a book likely to be helpful to many men, and if action is taken on the agenda outlined in the final chapter, to our country as a whole.

Table of Contents:

• Introduction
• Is It Real?: The Evidence for a Significant Social Problem
• Telling Their Stories: Men Speak Out
• The Domestic Violence Trap: How to Get Help and Find Freedom from Abuse
• Resistance and Acceptance: The Challenge to Understanding
• Exploring New Approaches to Reduce Domestic Violence
• Notes
• Selected Bibliography
• Selected Resources
• Index